Friends & associates


  • Elaine Young (UK) – a powerful teacher combining Shamanic Breathwork, Sexological Bodywork and Tantra in a unique way
  • Gayatri (UK) – a wonderful teacher and practitioner creating Heaven on Earth through Eros
  • Oxford Tantra Wave (UK) – beautiful events and workshops in Oxford led by Rupert and Rowan
  • Queer Hearted (UK) – queer conscious sex workshops and events led by Amanda Gay-Love
  • Ruby Luna May (UK, central & northern Europe) – one of Europe’s leading teachers of sexuality & consciousness, an ally and close friend
  • Sacred Pleasures (UK, central & northern Europe) – the community and school I founded, a unique brew of playful exploration, conscious kink and personal growth
  • Sea School of Embodiment (UK) – international sexuality trainings and workshops for personal and professional development
  • Shakti Malan (worldwide) – a remarkably powerful Tantra teacher from South Africa who tours most of the year
  • Shakti Tantra (UK) – a UK Tantra school with a particularly powerful women’s programme
  • Tantra4GayMen (UK) – a UK Tantra school for gay men led by the marvellous Jason & Ingo

  • Elsewhere (Europe-wide) – Ruby May’s remarkable experiment in permission, possibility and co-created sex-positive magic
  • Fetish Map (London) – a comprehensive overview of kinky London, for enthusiasts, connoisseurs & newcomers
  • Kinky Salon (Berlin, Copenhagen, London) – creative playful sex-positive parties, a great place to express yourself, connect and have fun
  • Sparkle Hard (London) – London’s newest sex-positive party: “a party to dance, play and spread your sparkle”
  • The Summerhouse (UK) – a wonderfully playful, creative annual sex-positive retreat for exploring intimacy, connection and self-expression
  • The Winterhouse (UK) – the winter edition of The Summerhouse, launching in February 2015

  • Celebration of Life (Czech Republic) – a yummy festival fusing Tantra, biodanza and spiritual growth
  • Erosphere (Paris) – a playful, anarchic festival exploring the intersection of creativity, self-expression, kink and sex
  • Osho Leela Conscious Sexuality Festival (Dorset) – the original and much copied Conscious Sexuality festival, curated and led by members of this intense Osho community
  • Quintasensual (Somerset) – the UK’s first and only queer/inclusive sacred sexuality festival
  • Tantra4Gay Men festival (Wales) – the UK’s only Tantra festival for gay men, curated and led by Jason & Ingo
  • Xplore (Berlin, Vienna) – the festival on the art of lust, curated and hosted by Schwelle7 – a remarkable and unique space

  • Arielle (London) – intelligent sensitive and sexy London-based Dominant
  • Avanti (worldwide) – life-changing psychic coaching over the telephone
  • Cathryn Jiggens (London) – excellent tantra therapist
  • Claire Black (London) – co-creator of Ecstatic BDSM: “There are many routes to ecstasy, I’ll take you the dark and dirty one”
  • Dakini Kimaya (London) – Dakini and body psychotherapist: “Sexuality is not just what we do in bed, it’s our entire creative aliveness”
  • Cléo Dubois (San Francisco) – world class BDSM teacher, initiator and ritualist in San Francisco (also here)
  • DK Leather (worldwide) – Psychotherapist and Coach with experience in alternative lifestyles (poly, kink, tantra, shaman & LGBTQ)
  • Jason Tantra (London, Bristol) – outstanding Tantric massage for men who love men
  • Kai Helmich (London, Dublin) – integrating Mind, Body, Soul and Spirit through Life, Intimacy and Somatic Sex Coaching/ Sexological Bodywork
  • Katie Sarra (Devon) – sex and relationship therapist, Sexological Bodyworker, Tantra teacher and erotic artist: “Witnessing you in your naturalness”
  • Kian de la Cour (Devon) – Sex coaching and erotic bodywork
  • Marti (London) – my beautiful partner, an outstanding Dominant Courtesan based in London
  • Magic Hands Massage (London) – outstanding Tantric and lomi lomi massage
  • Meredith Reynolds (London) – somatic sex educator and geeky Certified Sexological Bodyworker
  • Olivia Fitzgerald (London) – Dominant Courtesan and Travel Companion of brains and beauty
  • Rebecca Lowrie (London) – sacred sexual expansion and exploration in London
  • Sarah Rose Bright (Liverpool, Manchester & Skype) –  Somatic Sex & Pleasure Coaching & Education
  • Seani Love (London) – Male Dominant and Shadow Healer
  • Sofia Skydancer (often in London) – intimate, beautiful heart-centred Tantric Massage
  • Steph Magenta (Manchester) – Shamanic Tantra & high vibration living
  • Tania Glyde (London) – kink, poly and queer friendly psychotherapy and couples counselling
  • Tara Bliss (London, Bristol) – erotic escapades and ecstatic encounters
  • Violet Rose (London, Edinburgh, Berlin) – old school courtesan with thoroughly modern values
  • Zoe Valentine (London) – your Illicit, erotic and intimate companion

  • Bloodwood Accounting (London) – unusual accounting for creative and sex-positive businesses
  • Claudia Bites (online) – excellent blog about sex worker rights and sexual freedom
  • Lipstick Lori (online) – sex positive blogging
  • Matt Christie (London) – photographer of models and sex workers
  • Miss Morphic (London) – videos you don’t want yo Mamma to see
  • Myles Jackman (London) – award winning obscenity law advice from the sexual freedoms specialist
  • Sacred Eros (online) – a select directory for sacred sexuality and tantra sessions, articles and workshops
  • Shokti Lovestar – a deep, heartfelt blog exploring queer mystical emergence (also here)
  • Vina Green Erotica (online) – erotic writer of pervy tales

A very big thank you to Matt, Lori and Belle Lettriste for the fabulous images on this website.

  • Dossie Easton – psychotherapist, pervert, ethical slut
  • Fakir Musafar – the original Modern Primitive
  • Joseph Kramer – founder of sexological bodywork and the world’s leading teacher of erotic massage
  • Nancy Kline – giving people Time To Think for over 15 years
  • M. Scott Peck – demonstrating the strength in our vulnerability

If you’d like to swap links with me please get in touch:
contact @ londonfaerie . co . uk

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