Between desire and action

Between desire and action there is a moment of choice. Often I do not stay in the space between long enough to know this, because my desire is strong and … why not move into action?

During this period of chosen celibacy I am noticing how often I am driven by my desire and . . . → Read More: Between desire and action

How are you?

It’s inevitable, I suppose, as an opening gambit – but How Are You? is not my favourite question.

Right now the truest answer, which I give quite often, is Deep in process. The problem with this answer is simple – people always want to know more. And when I’m deep in process I don’t . . . → Read More: How are you?

My racy mind // what’s that all about?

A while ago I had a gorgeous client session. My client is someone I’m friendly with, and I was delighted when she booked in for a Sacred Kink session with me; even more so when I found out that her interest was in the kind of strict D/s that sings to me.

The session . . . → Read More: My racy mind // what’s that all about?

Romance without illusion // the ultimate true love?

This week my regular cleaner D____ was poorly, so the company sent a replacement: S____. She was a very cute young Bulgarian, and unlike D____ (who’s beautiful but rather grumpy), she was eager to chat. She’d only been working as a cleaner for a month, having spent the previous 4 years picking tomatoes in . . . → Read More: Romance without illusion // the ultimate true love?