Performing the ecstatic at Eroticon 2012

Faerie with furry mits

Image by Belle Lettriste

Last Saturday I had the privilege of demonstrating Ecstatic BDSM to 80 people. Not only was it the biggest group I’ve ever performed in front of, it was also a fantastic crowd. Why? Because we were at Eroticon, the UK’s first conference of erotic writers and sex bloggers.

When I . . . → Read More: Performing the ecstatic at Eroticon 2012

Romance without illusion // the ultimate true love?

This week my regular cleaner D____ was poorly, so the company sent a replacement: S____. She was a very cute young Bulgarian, and unlike D____ (who’s beautiful but rather grumpy), she was eager to chat. She’d only been working as a cleaner for a month, having spent the previous 4 years picking tomatoes in . . . → Read More: Romance without illusion // the ultimate true love?

My racy mind // what’s that all about?

A while ago I had a gorgeous client session. My client is someone I’m friendly with, and I was delighted when she booked in for a Sacred Kink session with me; even more so when I found out that her interest was in the kind of strict D/s that sings to me.

The session . . . → Read More: My racy mind // what’s that all about?

Between desire and action

Between desire and action there is a moment of choice. Often I do not stay in the space between long enough to know this, because my desire is strong and … why not move into action?

During this period of chosen celibacy I am noticing how often I am driven by my desire and . . . → Read More: Between desire and action

Loneliness

In the middle of August I did my second hook suspension with my Faerie tribe in California. My intention for this big, powerful ritual was to step fully into my power, to start becoming all that I am destined to be.

Time and time again I’ve found that, when I do a big ritual . . . → Read More: Loneliness

Sex: Intention and Insight

Last weekend I was lucky enough to be invited to a beautiful Sensual Summer Gathering in Sebastapol, about 90 minutes’ drive north from San Francisco. This juicy Tantric sex party was hosted by one of the movers and shakers in the North California human potential movement, in her beautiful home that was . . . → Read More: Sex: Intention and Insight

Namaste, Motherfucker!

Success (from Osho Zen Tarot)

It’s been a perfect Gathering.

Let me rephrase that. Every Gathering is perfect, in its way. But this one has been easier, smoother and more enjoyable than any I can remember since the first one.

With Gathering there’s always a process to “get there”. By “get there” I mean let my barriers down so . . . → Read More: Namaste, Motherfucker!