I trigger you better
If you’ve ever wished you could wake up from your drama or recreate the movie of your life, then go to Faerie. He’s the ultimate director of new beginnings. – Amala Bodhi, Tantrika
More deeply I allowed up the terror of my youth, except this time I held myself in it … All the parts of me that dissociated came back and stayed … In this experience I found out I am enough and I never have to experience that terror again, it’s gone. I am free. – Avi Esther (read the full write-up here >>)

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One of the most powerful things I offer is Shadow Healing – a journey into the dark, where you’re held safely and with love.
In Shadow Healing I recreate scenes from the past in order to trigger you, with the intention of releasing the negative feelings trapped in your body around those traumatic events.
Once you move into the triggered state you get a chance to speak back to those who dominated or bullied you in the past. This is the moment of release, the chance for you to say what never got said. This is the moment at which the negative energy leaves your body.
Right after the triggering happens, I offer you a new alternative version of that scene. You get to ask for what you needed at that time, and I give it to you as best I can. This process allows for a brighter, more positive alternative to exist alongside the trauma. Your system remembers them in association, and if you keep focusing on the more positive experience it becomes your memory.
Often I do this two or three times in a session. This powerful approach – releasing what’s stuck and creating a new, more positive impression alongside the original – helps aspects of the shadow be integrated and become more conscious.
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Last night’s session was absolutely amazing and led to some excellent discussion between my partner and I on the way home: talking about slightly tricky areas but without blame or accusation. It was wonderful. Thank you so much. – S.
After careful and caring negotiation Faerie competently held space for me and cruelly pushed me to express the ugly things I wanted to let go of . I felt safe to explore dark places and let out dark things that had been brewing for years. - Claire Black
There are three aspects to Shadow Healing that make it work:
- Your willingness to go into the dark
- my ability to take you there and to bring you back in one piece
- the triggers that recall the things that hurt you
Each Shadow Healing session is unique, created around what you’re working with at this moment. Some examples:
- You’re grieving, and desire a strong rhythmic flogging to help you mourn and let go
- You’re angry with your mother (or father), and desire to revisit that space of helplessness so you can say what you never had a chance to say as a child
- You are always in control, and desire to be securely bound so you can finally let go
It’s amazing what’s possible in a short space of time. A typical healing journey lasts three to five sessions, spaced 1-2 months apart.
Shadow Healings are suitable for men, women and trans-folk of all orientations. Singles and couples are welcomed.
Sessions take place at spaces in north-central London (St Johns Wood, Highgate and Camden). I can also visit your home for sessions if you have a suitable space for it.
A Shadow Healing usually involves: an initial phone consultation, an email exchange to determine boundaries, a 2-3 hour session and follow-up support by phone and email.
Shadow Healing Sessions last 2-3 hours and cost £250. Concessions are sometimes available.
To find out more and book a session please call me on 07583 343 928 or email faerie [at] sacredpleasures [dot] co [dot] uk.


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