Kinky Coaching with London Faerie

If you’re going to do something nasty, do it with love

I feel fortunate indeed to have discovered Sacred Pleasures. Faerie provided a sizzling introduction for my partner to the ins and outs of BDSM – with myself as the test object – in a sane and consensual manner, following an in-depth pre-session negotiation where every eventuality was considered before we entered The Pot. – P

Thank you for being so patient and flexible when we came for training. You made us both feel safe to explore new things and new tools! I wasn’t sure what to expect, and found that you were totally delightful, really experienced and lots of fun. - Rebecca Lowrie

Faerie is highly skilled at SM and has an innate ability to clearly pass on his knowledge and wisdom to newbies and more experienced players alike. - Claire Black

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Kinky Coaching is a fun, embodied way to learn Sacred Kink. I teach you the basics and then hold space for you as you learn how to do it your own way. If you are in a couple or triad, you can play together; if you are single, I can arrange for a ‘bunny’ (demo body) to receive while you learn.

A Kinky Coaching session begins with a chat to help you identify what you’re interested in learning and exploring. These may include:

• Impact play (hands, floggers, canes, paddles and other tools)
• Sensation play (tickling, feathers, hot wax, clothes pegs etc)
• **NEW** Fire & Wax
• Dominance and submission
• Role play
• Simple bondage and restraint
• Temporary play piercing
• Forced bisexuality
• Playing with non-consent (consensually)
• Gender play

Once we’ve established the things you want to explore, we go into the playspace together to start the session. Depending on your level of experience, this may begin with training in the use of specific tools. As your confidence grows, I guide you to explore and play with what you’ve learnt – encouraging you to discover what works for you.

As well as gaining skills and confidence, I teach you how to discuss and negotiate each scene, how to create sacred space for playing, when and how to play with safewords and how to enjoy the beautiful afterglow at the end of a scene.

If you’re new to BDSM, I recommend the “Triple Warmer” – a gorgeous relaxed set of 3 evening sessions, in which you’ll explore two or three areas of BDSM in some detail. And at the end you get a wonderful bonus – an evening on your own in the playspace, so you can enjoy what you’ve learnt unsupervised.

Kinky Coaching is suitable for singles, couples and small groups of all genders and orientations.

Coaching sessions take place at spaces in north-central London (St Johns Wood, Highgate and Camden). I can also visit your home for sessions if you have a suitable space for it.

A typical Kinky Coaching session includes: an initial phone consultation, an exchange of emails to negotiate boundaries, a 2-3 hour session and follow-up by phone or Skype.

Kinky Coaching sessions typically last 2-3 hours and cost £250. The Triple Warmer is £650. Concessionary rates are sometimes available.

To find out more and book a session, call me on 07583 343 928 or email faerie @ sacredpleasures . co . uk.

I also offer in-depth Sacred Kink training for Practitioners. This is aimed at Tantrikas, Escorts and Professional Dominants who want to expand their practice in this area. If you’re interested in Practitioner Training please email me: faerie @ sacredpleasures . co . uk